Welcome to the October edition of the CFSG
newsletter. I am pleased to have managed to produce 4 issues this year.
Unfortunately this issue is different to the one planned because for various
(valid) reasons those people who kindly volunteered to write pieces have not
been able to produce them in time.
In these circumstances this issue attempts to
provide details of charities, groups, websites and companies that maybe of use
to some of you. If you have found an organisation of whatever type that has
been of benefit (especially if it is not well known and of a specialist nature)
please let me know as it may help someone else.
I now no longer have
any pen portraits for the next issue therefore please send me a pen portrait
about your child, so that I can include it in a forthcoming newsletter. It is
very useful for other parents to see how other children are getting on.
Finally I would like to
welcome new and returning members to the group.
Simon
Good News!
With the continuing and
often new problems we have to deal with as parents or people with CHARGE and
for parents with young children it is good to be able to announce some positive
news.
I have been contacted
by 2 mothers following their daughters’ GCSE results. Both Caroline Marett and
Zara-Jane Arnold achieved 9 passes at GCSE obtaining, Caroline obtaining 3 B’s
and 6 C’s whilst Zara obtained 1 B, 6 C’s and 2 D’s. Caroline has stayed on at
the 6th Form at Mary Hare and Zara is at College studying for a BTEC
in performing Arts.
Zara was also
interviewed by J17 magazine in September and gave a speech at the SENSE meeting
at this year’s Labour party conference.
I am happy to
report other achievements not just academic but also sporting for example.
Please send me your stories.
David Levey has resigned as the co ordinator of the European CHARGE Network. I would like to thank him for the work he has done in support of CHARGE Syndrome in his various capacities.
INFORMATION and ADVICE
Hanna Levey contacted
the Family Fund Trust to assist financially in providing for a tricycle for her
son Joshua as she knew these tricycles could be £400-500. They in turn
contacted Whizz-kidz (the movement for non mobile children www.whizz-kidz.org.uk
A senior mobility
therapist from whizz-kidz visited and initially assessed Joshua’s needs. She in
turn contacted Malcolm and Mary Jones at Wise Wheels for a further assessment.
Malcolm recommended a Tri 1 because Joshua is physically quite strong and has
good control steering. This trike is also versatile, cool and has a folding
frame option so it can be transported in a car. Joshua chose his favourite
colour – yellow although usually the bikes are only made in red. Malcolm was
very friendly and professional. It was good to see how he custom built the
trike to Joshua’s specific personal needs. He was there for the delivery to
make sure that all the specifications and adaptations were appropriate. For
Joshua’s parent’s it has been such a joy to see him confidently racing along.
It’s such a cool trike that all the neighbourhood children and friends want to
have a ride on it as well.
Contact for free
assessment of tricycles, walkers and hand cycles- Malcolm and Mary Jones at
Wise Wheels, Fairleads
House, Top Street, Northend, Southam, Warwickshire CV47 2 TN
Tel/fax: 01295
770806
Mobile: 07980
649010
Email: squirejones@supanet.com
Website: www.wisewheels.co.uk
Tomcat Trikes
Ltd - Provide custom built trikes
Contact Bob Grifin
Tel: 01453
890732
The Family Fund Trust
They
give grants and information related to the care of the child.
The range of grants includes holidays,
leisure, laundry equipment, driving lessons and lots more. The range of
information they produce includes subjects such as benefits, holidays and
transport.
Family Fund, PO Box 50, York Y01 9ZX
Tel: 0845
1304542
Email: info@familyfund.org.uk
Website: www.familyfundtrust.org.uk
An extensive directory of UK (and non UK) websites on
health, disease, and related topics including:
Database of patient groups,
self help groups in the UK.
Equipment suppliers and
manufacturers.
Patient advocacy.
Dycem
Leading manufacturer of non slip material. Their products are not sticky but have amazing grip without use of any adhesive. These non slip features are particularly useful for customers with mobility/gripping problems to help them safely maintain their independence. The products are child friendly and they can help visually impaired people with daily lives with elements of contrast/colour and tone.
Tel: 0117 955 9921
Email: uk@dycem.com
Website: www.dycem.com
Training
In England the
Learning and Skills Council (LSC) is responsible for planning and funding
education and training for people over 16. Its aims include helping people
find, stay in jobs and making training and education accessible to all.
The help desk
number is 0870 900 6800. In Wales the National Council (ELWA) does the same job
on 08456 088066.
SNAP! News
The recruitment agency providing nannies and childcare workers for children who have special needs.
Tel: 020 77292200
Statementing - problems with
IPSEA
The independent panel
for Educational advice gives help in asking the LEA for a statutory assessment
of your child’s special educational needs. The wealth of info includes sample
letters. Find them on www.ipsea.org.uk/
.
Tel: 0800 0184016
NDCS (National Deaf
Children’s Society) provide an advice service to assist with
statementing together with information sheets and sample letters.
The NDCS also provide
an omnidirectory which is a guide to technology and contacts for deaf and hard
of hearing people. This for example has details of all schools for the deaf.
Tel: 020
7014 1106
Website: www.ndcs.org.uk
Contact a Family
has a very useful fact sheet on statementing that includes lists of types of
school/education provision and also details of the Code of Practice (2001) find
them on www.cafamily.org.uk .
For those of you with
children under the age of 2 it is your entitlement to request the assessment
for statementing of your child. The local authority has no choice but to start
the procedure unlike if your child is over 2.
Contact a Family
has a new and concise informative and useful publication: Disabled - education and disability – a parent’s
guide to right from nursery to university. Any family can ring the freephone
helpline for a free copy on 0808 808 3555 (between 10-4) Mon-Fri.
Getting help to adapt your home
If you need to
adapt your home to make it easier for you or your child to manage then you may
be entitled to a disabled facilities grant. For anyone considering an
application for a grant it is advisable to seek further help and advice as the
system can prove to be quite complex. The Family Fund Trust also produces a
helpful fact sheet - Adaptations to Housing.
MERU
Medical Engineering
Resource Unit is a special charity set up to help children with disabilities.
Their work involves designing and making one off pieces of equipment for
individual children. Their aim is to give the children a greater quality of
life to help them achieve their full potential in any way they can. Some
examples of their work – mobile computer tray, large bash pad, large switch for
computer access, head switches.
MERU 8 Dawson way,
Orchard Hill, Carshalton, Surrey SM5 4NR
Tel: 020 8770 8286
Fax: 020 8770 8398
Email: info@meru.org.uk
Website: www.meru.org.uk
Amongst much
information they have details of software (whether using a mouse or not)
available to assist people with visual problems – www.rnib.org.uk. The RNIB toy catalogue is
available at Toys R Us.
Another reference for
software is in the current issue of Deafblind Perspectives an online
publication – www.tr.wou.edu/tr/dbp/current.htm
.
A lot of our children
with CHARGE have both a significant vision and
hearing loss and a guidance issued by the Department of Health in March 2001
gives new rights to deafblind people and places new duties on local
authorities. It applies to children,
adults and older people. The guidance
is about anyone who has a hearing loss and sight loss that causes them
difficulty in everyday life.
You may not like the
term deafblind or may not think it applies to your child as he/she is not
completely deaf or completely blind.
However the guidance defines deafblindness widely and says “Persons are
regarded as deafblind if their combined sight and hearing impairment cause
difficulties with communication, access to information and mobility”. If your child falls into this category (and
my son James certainly does) then this guidance applies to them.
The guidance tells
local authorities that they have to do particular things that will help
deafblind people, and provides suggestions about the way that they can help
them. It asks local authorities to:
Local authorities have
a responsibility to show that they are following guidance from the Secretary of
State for Health and if they fail to do so they may be subject to judicial
review.
Assessment is your key
to getting what you need from your local authority. If you have not been offered an assessment for your child you can
request one at any time through your social worker if you have one or by
contacting your local social services department (probably the Children with a
Disability Team). Regardless of whether
you are receiving services already or this is your first assessment you need to
ask to be assessed in accordance with Social
Care for Deafblind Children and Adults.
Your local social services may claim that they
are not aware of the guidance or the need for assessment. If they do so ask them to refer to the
Department of Health website – the full guidance can be found at www.doh.gov.uk/scg/deafblind and
chase them until you get an assessment.
It is important to be aware that an assessment to comply with Social
Care for Deafblind Children and Adults must be made by a specialist trained in deafblindess.
For further information for yourself visit the
above web site, also visit the Sense website for their factsheets which explain
the guidance and your rights fully - www.sense.org.uk/rights/section7.html
. If you do not have access to a computer feel free to contact me for copies
(01484 646828 leaving your full name, address and telephone number) or contact
your local Sense branch (see below):
Sense London Tel 0207 272 7774 Fax 0207 272 6012
Sense Scotland Tel 0141 564 2444 Fax 0141 564 2443
Sense Northern Ireland Tel 028 9083 3430 Fax 028 9084 4232
Sense North Tel
0113 205 9500 Fax 0113 205 9501
Sense Cymru Tel
029 2045 7641 Fax 029 2049 9644
Sense West Tel 0121 415 2720 Fax 0121 472 8932
Sense East Tel 01778 382230 Fax 01778 380078
Sense South East Tel 0208 541 1147 Fax 0208 541 1132
SENSE website www.sense.org.uk
Sense also has a list of equipment catalogues
available.
Many thanks to Hanna Levey who provided much of this information.
LABELS FEEDBACK
I am pleased to say that I received some feedback
from people concerning Keith’s Labels piece:
Michael
Schwartz in Ventura, California, USA, father of
5-year-old twin boys Daniel (CHaRGE) and Nicholas:
“I very
much enjoyed the July newsletter and especially the articles on labels (a child
with CHARGE versus CHARGEr, etc.). I agree with what was said and would
like to add an observation.
When
someone is talking to my child or me, I find their tone of voice
and attitude more important than whether they get the terminology
correct. I can tell if they are genuinely concerned and are trying to be
nice as opposed to being mean or rude. If I thought someone had good
intentions but was ignorant as to currently acceptable terminology or had false
assumptions, I would wait until later in the conversation and bring it up in a
calm matter of fact manner.
Some
people might want to make positive contact with you or your child or others
with disabilities, but are worried that they might say or do the wrong
thing. If someone makes an effort, we should make it a positive
experience so that they will continue to be willing to reach out to others in
the future.”
Alison Knight
“Thanks for the newsletter I found it
very interesting. I think the subject of "labels" will be around for
a long time. When you tell people for the first time of the
diagnosis, they then take a step back and are looking to see what is
different about your child, as if it maybe catching.”
One response I received was a proposal to write a piece on ‘special parents’, unfortunately the proposer has not been to able write it. Elaine Murray Bell had posted the following response on the CHARGE Listserve that sets out similar sentiments with which Flo and I also agree:
“I'm sorry but I really
have to disagree about ' special children only go to
special
parents'. I am not special in any way and only do what I can for my child. I
like to think that that I do just as much for my daughter who has no
disabilities.
I wish
with all my heart that my son did not have all the problems he has and
it
certainly does not make me feel 'special' in any way. I agree that my son is an
amazing little boy with an enormous personality and he is very, very 'special'
to us but as I said, my daughter is also very
special to
us and she doesn't have CHARGE.”
Keith’s article referred to People First and in the latest issue of the newsletter for CHARGE Syndrome Canada (www.chargesyndrome.ca) there is a link to an article on People First Language. This is http://www.disabilityisnatural.com/peoplefirstlanguage.htm.
FUNDRAISING
GIFT AID
- Carol Thomas
As you know, the CHARGE Family Support Group is
run by volunteers and all our funds to date have come from the fantastic
fundraising activities of our member families and their friends and
supporters. Long may this
continue! However the Group has no
regular income and in order to maintain and improve the level of activities and
support we can provide, the Group’s Committee have decided to launch a Gift Aid
campaign.
Anyone who wishes to make a donation (either
one-off or regular) to the Support Group can do so by filling in the
declaration attached to this newsletter. If the donor is a UK taxpayer (see the
note on the bottom of the form) they can tick the Gift Aid box and we can claim
back 28p from the Inland Revenue for every £1 that is donated. This could make a big difference. We can also backdate a declaration to cover
all donations since 6 April 2000, so if you have made a donation in the past to
the Group please fill in a declaration and send it back.
Please contact Carol on 01484 646828; e-mail cajthomas@btinternet.com or Barbara
on 0113 2868 350; e-mail John.Payne7@btinternet.com
if you need more copies of the declaration.
Thanks for your help!
Hannah Henderson
Hannah is 5
years old, born 18 May 1998. She lives in Oxford with her parents, Trina
and Rob, and her twin siblings Alice and Tom who are 15 months old.
Hannah is in her first year at primary school, in the pre-school nursery
class. She has three LSAs at school (one for afternoons, and two who
job-share the morning sessions). Outside of school Hannah loves music,
swimming and riding (RDA), and is happiest watching one of her favourite
videos.
When Hannah
was born we learnt quite quickly about some of her problems - a facial palsy
(unilateral at birth, but became bilateral at 9 months), tetralogy of Fallot
(corrective heart surgery at 11 months) and a moderate-to-severe hearing
loss. CHARGE was not diagnosed until she was 2 when her bilateral retinal
colobomas were discovered. Hannah has had 5 operations including, most
recently, a successful cranial nerve/muscle graft which is starting to give her
some movement in her face. At the last count Hannah sees 12 consultants,
6 therapists and 5 specialist teachers so we are kept busy with appointments.
Hannah's most persistent problems remain her
vestibular dysfunction (she started walking at 4 but is still unsteady on her
feet) and her lack of communication. Her speech development appeared to
stall at age 2, and she shows signs of verbal dyspraxia. Her facial palsy
makes social interaction with other children difficult. Hannah is still
wearing nappies.
Like all parents of
CHARGE children we have found that just when you feel that one problem has been
resolved, another one pops up demanding attention! Our current concerns
include the lack of OT support available locally; Hannah's sight - we think
that Cortical Vision Impairment might be a problem but are unable to persuade
Hannah's consultant to test for it; and whether we should be re-considering
signing as a way of aiding communication.
We have learnt over the
years that we have to persist with looking for new ideas and solutions, and
sometimes that means not accepting what you're told at first. We started
a programme of HANDLE therapy exercises earlier this year, which has been
beneficial on many levels, and we recently persuaded our LEA to fund the involvement
of a specialist MSI teacher from Sense at Hannah's school to advise her
teachers and LSAs.
Hannah is a very brave,
sweet natured and spirited girl. She inspires great affection in everyone
who gets to know her.
Emily Knight (born 3 October 1991)
Just to update you and the group and
hopefully to give hope to others who may have only recently had their child
diagnosed.
As we all know in the early years -----
working with Emily has been hard work and we have shed many tears and
setbacks. Emily also has an older sister who at the time also needed our
care and support.
Today, Emily has moved on to senior
school and she is very excited about this new beginning. We have been
successful in getting extra support in school and Emily has been provided with
a laptop to help with note taking in class in addition to the micro link
system. She is a very happy, social child and works very hard to keep up with
her peers- struggles with maths but then that's not the end of the world.
Emily is well liked by all her peers
and teachers. The headmistress said the determination and courage of Emily to
have a go at everything and anything she deserves to succeed.
Emily is partially deaf and wears
hearing aids (balance problems as no semi circular canal). She has Coloboma
of the retina in both eyes, better sight in the left eye. Emily has
had open heart surgery for aortic stenosis but will need further surgery
in October 2003. Whilst she did have a feeding problem Emily now eats normally
and enjoys her food.
Alison & Peter Knight
FEEDBACK
Please
give me any comments – positive or negative about the newsletter. I can only improve it if you give me
feedback.
A continued plea – if you have not given either Carol or I
an email address when you have one please do. Newsletters sent out by post go
out at least a week (even longer with the postal strike affecting me!) after
they are emailed because of the amount of photocopying and stuffing of
envelopes (remember this is done in my own time).
CHARGE Family
Support Group Website
http://www.widerworld.co.uk/charge
Hanna Levey (First point of contact)
82 Gwendolen Avenue
London E13 0RD
Tel: 020 8552 6961
Email: Levey2000@aol.com
Carol Thomas (Chair)
Telephone: 01484
646828
Email: bothamhall@talk21.com
Barbara Payne (Secretary)
Telephone: 0113 286
8350
Email:john.payne7@btinternet.com
Simon Howard and Flo Njeru
Telephone: 020 8265
3604 Emails:si_howard@hotmail.com or
flonjeru@hotmail.com
(note if you are not using a hyperlink for my email it is
si_howard@hotmail.com – the underscore cannot be seen on the link)
Any problems with my email please use Flo’s
Yvonne Arnold (Committee)
Telephone: 01708
764533
Email: eveian@btinternet.com
In Scotland Elaine Murray- Bell is
available as a point of contact.
Telephone: 01387 250284.
Her email address is: Jmurraybel@aol.com
The views expressed in this newsletter are not necessarily those held by the CHARGE Family Support Group.