Its good to hear about a child who has walked, toileted etc, i am just going to let Freddie do it in his own time, and at his own pace. Its difficult when other people have there assumptions on what Freddie should be doing. I am just so glad to have him, that as long as he is happy, thats fine.Is Your little man getting on ok, i have not spoke to any other parents,i felt quite aprehensive, i supose the thing is all charge children have varying needs, so there is no norm, just your own indivdual child. We have spent the day at the hosp as they thought his bad chest had turned into something nasty, luckily it is just a chest inf, but they were slightly concerned because of his extremely high blood pressure, we have to go back Tues, the doc said it could because of his kidneys, has anyone else come across this?